Sometimes, it appears that Dating 4 Marriage is a smooth, easy process for everyone…but you.

But things aren’t always as they appear. Many marriage-minded singles find dating challenging, confusing, and even frustrating. They try dating online, try dating lines and struggle with dating rules, dating ideas and dating etiquette. And yet, all they end up with is dating horror stories.

You don’t just want to get married. You want to get married to the RIGHT ONE. Asking for help at this early stage can be one of the most valuable steps you can take to finding your life partner.

You’re about to embark on a challenging journey. Why not let an experienced Relational Coach guide you through it? She can give you a perspective that, on your own, you just might not see…

Society is more complicated than it was a few generations ago. We don’t see enough models of successful courtship. We have no idea how to get married. And, we don’t know how to use courtship to develop a relationship that’s ripe and ready to blossom into a healthy, happy, loving marriage.

Coaching helps you find what you need to get the dating help you need—and have a dating breakthrough! You’ll shift out of negative recurrent patterns into a productive dating process, with ease, confidence, focus and clarity.

If you’re a single man, who has been dating unproductively for a long time, you may finally have met someone who seems to be right, and you may want guidance and encouragement. You may ask:

• “How can I tell that we’re right for each other?”
• “How do I know I’m really ready to get married?”
• “When will I know that it’s the right time to talk about marriage?”
• “I really like the person I’m seeing, but I have seen some of my friends get divorced and I worry that the same thing might happen to me.  I need to talk this through with someone.”
• Or, if you’re a single woman, you might be concerned about potential dating red flags that are happening in your courtship—dating situations that you don’t know how to resolve on your own.
• Maybe you feel that the man you’ve been dating is a little controlling
• Maybe you’re suddenly feeling ambivalent about your prospect
• Maybe you’re seeing your guy every day, and haven’t had time to let your dating emotions settle in.
• Maybe the infatuation is wearing off, and you’re seeing things you’re not quite sure you can accept.
• Maybe you’re panicking because this guy could be The One!

I can assure you that these feelings are normal. Together, we can uncover the root of your anxiety.

Maybe you’re not getting married just yet. Maybe you’re never getting past the early dates, sabotaging the courtship just as it starts to take direction, or gravitating towards emotionally unavailable men and women.

I can help you understand what is driving these unproductive patterns, and help you break them to start successfully Dating 4 Marriage.

Do any of these scenarios resonate with you?

Dating Support and Strategies for Beginners:  

“I’ve just started to date and am eager to get married and find my intended life partner.”
I’m in a positive frame of mind, ready to date great prospects; yet need some encouragement, emotional support and practical guidance that’ll help me date confidently and successfully.
 
Direction and Goal Clarification: 

“I’ve dated for a long time and still haven’t found the “right one”!
I’ve been dating many very nice girls, dating younger women and dating older women, some for a long time.  After a while though, I feel uncertain and   “break up”.  I keep expecting that there’ll be someone else out there more suitable who I’ll fall head over heels about.  I need a dating coach to help me to be sure who I am and what I’m looking for in a spouse.  How do I evaluate a candidate for marriage-abilty and relevance to me?

Successful Guidelines to Dating Online:  

“ I’m dating for marriage.  I’ve recently expanded my search to include dating online and dating chat rooms.” I might find someone living hundreds of miles away with similar life goals and values- marriage, children and building a warm and loving home, I want to be sure of physical attraction and avoid internet dating horror stories.  I need dating advice on how to successfully navigate long-distance dating.

Creating a Personal Network: 

“How do I get myself known?”
I’m in my forties, in quest for finding potential relevant dating prospects.  I’m open to dating parents and dating older women or dating older men. I want to get the word out to the right people.  What I need is a network for support, inquiry and exposure.  How do I discreetly let the right people know about me?

Compatibility:  Building and Evaluating: 

“I’m so tired of unproductive dates that lead to no-where!”
I date often.  How do I get to know my dating partner beyond a superficial level?  Sure I want to enjoy her company and even have “fun” together, but I need to find out the deeper stuff like what motivates her and that I can trust her, understand her well, and care for her.  I need dating tips, dating advice, insights and wisdom.

Engagement Readiness

“I want to be sure that I’m getting married responsibly.  How do I know that I can securely project into the future?”
I’ve invested time, money and effort in my dating relationship.  I thought a lot about my decision to marry the person I’ve been dating 2 years.  I know that there are no guarantees, yet I want to use wise, “head over heart” evaluative tools that will reassure me that there’s great promise and potential in our relationship. I need to commit confidently to marry and to spend my life, space and time happily with this person forever!  Can you help me?
 
Now that you have a better idea of what I provide, find out if coaching is for you?

How I work:

One on One: Telephone sessions
Four One Hour coaching sessions per month, paid at the beginning of the month by credit card (For an Individual Single)  

or 

One on One: Face to Face sessions

Four One Hour coaching sessions per month, paid at the beginning of the month by credit card (For an Individual Single)
     
or

Group Coaching See Workshops:
Dating 4 Marriage: Singles Workshop 

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Order: Internet Dating Perils, Pitfalls, Precautions and Pleasures: Internet Dating E book
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